WELCOME TO LITTLE SECRETS BLOG
If this website and blog give you the creeps, good.
I am glad you still have a soul. Every one has little secrets. They usually are harmless. This is not one of those times. For, while you can shake of the chills that this site gave you, I couldn't. The all too real reality of what is dramatized here, was my life for 6 years. I know what it is like to be stalked and hunted.
This is the story of a family that was ripped apart by a monster who preyed on 3 innocent children and forced them to keep the 'little secrets' to themselves. It is the story of pure un-adulterated malevolence, cleverly masquereded as Grand Fatherly parental devotion. It is the wolf in sheep's clothing times ten.
This blog is to be a lesson in horror and an education in shock- as will be my book when I complete it. It is a cold slap in the face. For, while I was shrieking inside, from a hell most of you cannot imagine, the entire world around me truly believed everything was fine.
This is the story of a wicked and cruel organization known as 'Child Protective Services' that was anything but. In fact, it can be truly stated that CPS (called DYFS in our state) was the one and only impediment to our protection.
Finally, it is the story of how our society must revamp it's judicial system so that the will of the people is heard, and the sentences, prescribed by law are given.
It is the intention of this blog to tell our terrible story and to try and help other innocent children
and families from being traumatized. You will not spared my bluntless. All 6 of the other people in that house made bad choices in reacting to what we were seeing. All 6 of us.
These were not choices made out of a lack of love or care but out of a lack of any clue how to respond to evil and deception and manipulation beyond anything they had ever imagined.
If you know a child is being harmed by 'little secrets', intervene. Do not make the mistake of thinking that 'everyone knows' or that CPS is willing or able to help. Go to a parent, grandparent, or relative.
Give someone the opportunity to save the child- someone who can.
If you are the suspicious parent, for God's sake, trust your instincts and seperate your child from the adult you have concerns about. I don't care who it is. The child molester is usually the last person you suspected.
If you are an abused child, please listen to me. Come forward. I know you are terrified but there are people who can save you. Call 911. Tell your teacher. Tell someone. The moment you come forward, the abuser's power ends.
I am glad you still have a soul. Every one has little secrets. They usually are harmless. This is not one of those times. For, while you can shake of the chills that this site gave you, I couldn't. The all too real reality of what is dramatized here, was my life for 6 years. I know what it is like to be stalked and hunted.
This is the story of a family that was ripped apart by a monster who preyed on 3 innocent children and forced them to keep the 'little secrets' to themselves. It is the story of pure un-adulterated malevolence, cleverly masquereded as Grand Fatherly parental devotion. It is the wolf in sheep's clothing times ten.
This blog is to be a lesson in horror and an education in shock- as will be my book when I complete it. It is a cold slap in the face. For, while I was shrieking inside, from a hell most of you cannot imagine, the entire world around me truly believed everything was fine.
This is the story of a wicked and cruel organization known as 'Child Protective Services' that was anything but. In fact, it can be truly stated that CPS (called DYFS in our state) was the one and only impediment to our protection.
Finally, it is the story of how our society must revamp it's judicial system so that the will of the people is heard, and the sentences, prescribed by law are given.
It is the intention of this blog to tell our terrible story and to try and help other innocent children
and families from being traumatized. You will not spared my bluntless. All 6 of the other people in that house made bad choices in reacting to what we were seeing. All 6 of us.
These were not choices made out of a lack of love or care but out of a lack of any clue how to respond to evil and deception and manipulation beyond anything they had ever imagined.
If you know a child is being harmed by 'little secrets', intervene. Do not make the mistake of thinking that 'everyone knows' or that CPS is willing or able to help. Go to a parent, grandparent, or relative.
Give someone the opportunity to save the child- someone who can.
If you are the suspicious parent, for God's sake, trust your instincts and seperate your child from the adult you have concerns about. I don't care who it is. The child molester is usually the last person you suspected.
If you are an abused child, please listen to me. Come forward. I know you are terrified but there are people who can save you. Call 911. Tell your teacher. Tell someone. The moment you come forward, the abuser's power ends.
posted by Little Secrets at
9:30 AM
6 Comments:
Great job... I'm with you all... All the way..
tygrlili (Cindy)
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tygrlili, At
December 10, 2006 at 4:47:00 PM PST
hi there. i am sorry to hear of your pain. i am.
i am a mother of 3 beautiful, talented awesome children, 2-of who were molested by their father @ very young ages. but, you see, this is also the person who has full custody of my children today.
you know, i made fatal errors w/ CPS ingvolvement then. -8 years ago, when i discovered HE (father) was the actual culprit. Errors related to my ignorance of our evil system.
oh, HAVE I MADE EVEN BIGGER ERRORS in the last 3-4 years of custody battle, with CPS involvement-and their support of the FATHER.
i wish you strength, justice and personal empowerment, dear.
My thoughts & prayers are with you,
M. Powers
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Anonymous, At
February 12, 2007 at 12:41:00 PM PST
hi there. i am sorry to hear of your pain. i am.
i am a mother of 3 beautiful, talented awesome children, 2-of who were molested by their father @ very young ages. but, you see, this is also the person who has full custody of my children today.
you know, i made fatal errors w/ CPS ingvolvement then. -8 years ago, when i discovered HE (father) was the actual culprit. Errors related to my ignorance of our evil system.
oh, HAVE I MADE EVEN BIGGER ERRORS in the last 3-4 years of custody battle, with CPS involvement-and their support of the FATHER.
i wish you strength, justice and personal empowerment, dear.
My thoughts & prayers are with you,
M. Powers
By
Anonymous, At
February 12, 2007 at 12:41:00 PM PST
In a way I am one of the lucky ones. Although DYFS (the CPS system of new Jersey) completely messed up my case, I survived and now the bastard that raped me and abused me for 6 years is going to jail for 20 years. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that with your ex-husband. CPS doesnt know what they are doing. I am still working on my book, little-secrets (this site was named for my book)and will hopefully give people the tools they need in order to come forward and help them. I always her the smae stories of DYFS and CPS(and its even true in my case): DYFS is not equpipped to deal with these sorts of problems, and they support the perpetrator all too often. In my case the charges were speifically adressed to my stepgrandfather, and the caseworker asked me how my parents disciplined me...never mentioning my stepgrandfather or even indicating to me why she was there. I found out why she came 3 years later...after another caseworker came, My sister came forward with her abuse and my parent's relentless efforts to communicate with DYFS. Please know that although the pain that CPS brings families, there are people like me and you who can tell our stories. Thanks for visiting my blog, and thank you even more for your prayers, I will do the same for you and your children.
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Little Secrets, At
February 15, 2007 at 5:02:00 AM PST
You did an amazing job on my show. I cannot believe how brave you are.
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The Truth Surge, At
April 1, 2007 at 7:27:00 AM PDT
I hate to find out that I am not the only one going through this my 3 year old daughter was taken from me 3 weeks ago by cps after my daughter came home from her father's house on many occasions complaining that she had been hurt I took her to the ER 4 times and the doctors noted redness and swelling and even tears in her vaginal area one time she couldn't even use the bathroom now child protection has taken her from me saying that i had emotionally maltreated her by having her examined too many times I am at a loss of what to do next. my daughter was born very premature she only weighed 1 lb & 14 oz and had to fight to even be alive today I am outraged that my child has been taken from me by the very organization that is supposed to be here to help "protect" her I will now not only pray for my family but for all the other families facing this problem as well
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Anonymous, At
June 16, 2007 at 1:09:00 AM PDT
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